Dramatist Oliver Goldsmith once claimed, "I chose my wife, as she did her wedding gown, not for a fine glossy surface, but such qualities as would wear well."
Based on this quote, I asked people why they married their spouses. What qualities did they see in their spouse that made them the best choice as partner-for-life? Here's what they said.
I could trust him with everything.
He made room in his life and heart for me.
He listened.
I couldn't imagine life not being with her.
I missed him when I was gone and I realized I had never missed anyone like that before. I wanted to call him as soon as I got back.
He had all the things I said I always wanted.
I can totally be myself with him.
She fits me!
He was cute, smart, funny and flew airplanes. Forty-four years later, he is still cute, smart and funny, and I thank God for him everyday!
He made me feel special and I felt the same way about him. After just a couple of dates, I was sold.
We shared a great many interests.
No matter where I went in the world and no matter where he went, I wanted to be where he was. He connected with my heart.
He liked me for me. He was so accepting. I didn't have to have defenses up; I could just be me.
She's my kind of normal!
We had a lot of things in common. He's funny and he thought I was funny; he's just like me.
It's very comfortable to be with him. I can be my complete self with him. He's patient.
There was something about him, a quality of character there. I had an amazing respect for him that I had never had for anyone else before.
May these answers help you celebrate the love of your life this month. Happy Valentine's Day from Suite 101!
Rhonda Langefeld - Rhonda Langefeld is a trained speaker, writer, and teacher. She has taught history, writing, and music to high schoolers and home ...
